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hating myself: part 1

I.
two weeks ago
we sat there
silent in that
silent corner
he was crying
he was leaving
but I was puzzled
I was relieved
comforting words
did not comfort him
so
I blamed myself
for his misery
my misery
was fake.
but he never knew
and so he said
"don't"
never blame myself.?
there is nothing to blame in myself.?
"for you are perfect enough
for people to love you"
and he looked at me
with wet eyes.

II.
one week ago
he called
all the way from
down under
the uncomfortable silence
we used to think it
comforting, romantic
now I only squirm.
"don't hate yourself"
"I won't"
"I still love you"
"me too"
I lied.

III.
just yesterday
he was back
but it was
different
tensed.strained
forced smiles
or was it just
me?
I couldn't stand it
anymore
and bid farewell
to him.

IV.
now.
everything reminds
me of
him.
I see his face
hear his voice
but I cringe
with guilt
our love died
on my side
he stayed faithful
to the end
"don't hate yourself"
he said.
but now he's gone.
and I hate myself
again.

V.
the future?
jamming down
white miracle pills
to make me sleep
forever
a flash.
hating myself
till the very end.
goodbye.

chiiyo's comments :
This poem is split into two parts because I wrote them at two quite different stages of my life. This one I wrote when I was extremely depressed. As you may have guessed, it documents the last few months I spent with my very first boyfriend. In verse, it documents how we grew apart, and how I had "dumped" him. I was 15 at that time, not the most mature age to have a boyfriend. Since I initiated the relationship I was remorseful for my final decision, which, although was essential, I felt, was a betrayal. In essence, I felt that the whole thing was a mistake, and this big mistake was my own fault, for being so naive and so indecisive. This guilt was not the only thing that drove me finally to attempt suicide, but it was certainly part of the reason.



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